Sunday, July 5, 2015

Satisfied.

I so regret not bringing my camera to this place, so I’ll have to describe the scene with words.  July 2- Ashley Lake, beautiful NW Montana, 90 degrees and an occasional cloud that makes the breeze pleasant.

From my sun faded, 10 season worn fold up camp chair, I am people watching…. this is truly a favorite pastime.  I could do it all day and feel entertained, educated, and called to prayer.  Satisfied.

One man next to us is so intriguing.  He has a story I can’t imagine.  He pulls up in his older but well maintained Dodge van.  It would be a 15 passenger if it had seats, but it has been converted to a camper of sorts.  The van’s frame is old – 80’sI think, but it has good tires and spotless leather seats up front.  He pulls the van up next to our little day spot next to the boat ramp.  There, he idles for about 40 minutes while he unloads his Zodiak raft from the roof of the van.  He has the system down, complete with carpeted 2x8’s that attach to the raft rack with a door hinge.  This man is an inventor, and he knows what he needs to get the job done.  Well, no big one man project is without a hitch, and he once he lets a foul word slip as he walked around the edge of the van.  Seeing me, he immediately follows with “Sorry, ma’am”.  I heard but had my head turned toward the children, and didn’t had time to acknowledge. 

Once the raft is in the water, the man opens 2 side doors of the van to reveal a disorganized combination of bare necessities:  Jack Daniels BBQ sauce, a bottle of syrup, a futon style chair.  He disappears into the van for a while and emerges wrestling a shiny blue boat motor: not what I would have guessed to be in the limited space. He is an older man, grey hair and frail voice showing his age.  His shirtless skin explains he has been outdoors much of this summer.  I wonder if his Carhartt cutoffs have been around longer than I’ve recognized the Carhartt brand?  His bowed legs remind me of a cowboy; his belly shape tells me he enjoys his drinks ~ the American way.  On my way back from a trek to our own van, I see the stranger has Oregon license plates, so I’m curious where he lives, but not the type to ask.

The other 6 people I am watching are my favorites.  We have happened upon a little cove where a stream quietly runs into Ashley Lake.  All around the stream are lush green grass, bushy trees, and wildflowers.  The lake is a stunning aqua color.  Adrian is the first to walk right in; Jaci and Aaron go wading with him.  Ella and Tessa begin playing in the cooler stream, and their idea to create a fountain results in all the kids moving handfuls of rocky beach and asking Adrian to lift heavier rocks into place.  Orion, sitting in a mini camp chair beside me, spots a seagull on the water and tells me it cannot fly.  I assure him I saw it fly before landing on the water, so together we watch for it to take flight. 

The sun makes the water glitter, and I feel so satisfied.  Today my kids are civil engineers: designing a dam, a bridge, a waterfall.  They are biologists: observing tadpoles, minnows, crawdads, leeches, and the butterfly that rested on Tessa’s hand.  They are true scientists as they experience the water and theorize about the critters. They are budding geologists picking out the unique stone to keep.  They are soaking up sun, spending time as a family, and they don’t even realize they are learning!


Satisfied.

Saturday, July 4, 2015

4th of July

our perch for the parade!

"Can we ride with Daddy?"

ummmm, come to think of it, I guess we have never told him that you shouldn't have 3 at a time!


 

always fun to get out the 4th of July bin, to dress up!  
 

Ella's Patriotic party

May photos!

the girls' choir concert ~ Ella in turquoise; Tessa with a blue scarf!

free helmets from the hospital!
I have offered a reward to whomever has the shiniest helmet by the end of summer.

our little Timmy ~ not afraid to get his paws wet to go after those crawdads!

his sister Tika is a bit more skeptical...

planting the garden!



Saturday, June 6, 2015

kid-isms

My kids have been cracking me up lately ~ so want to share it as a journal here.  I think I will never forget.. but I do!
May Track Meet!
So a week or so ago, Cubby was singing this nonsense rhyme that the older kids have taught him while jumping on the trampoline or clapping a pattern.  He was chanting, "My name is pom pom poodle, willy, willy, whiskers, my name is Fred, Fred, Fred, Freeze!"  Upon hearing him be able to say all of that in his tiny little voice, I said, "Orion, I wish you were learning useful things, like 2, 4, 6, 8, 10..."  He immediately replied, "Noooo!  Sat is maf!"  (translation, if needed: No!  That is math!)  I guess it was so cute to me that he knows numbers are math-- one of the zillions of things I have never told my kids, but they just absorb!  Today while I was making lunch for the kids, he set 5 bowls on the table without being asked ~ yet another quantity I didn't know his little mind could fathom!  Well, of course he can count, but how many  3 year olds know how many kids there are in their family?
it's cool to have sisters who do your hair...
Happy 3rd Birthday to a really awesome little guy
(but don't let him hear you call him little!)

*favorite*
With a little interest and a little diligence, Aaron has taken off with his own reading and math skills!  I am so excited for him, and glad that he has been gifted with (from what I can tell) a photographic memory, which will serve him well.  He was also hard wired with a very strong will, which we pray the Lord will use for His glory.  So as intelligent as he is, he is not an easy child for me to teach!  I have to change all the methods I've used for the past 7 years to be effective with him.  His ploys this week have included disrespect/defiance, answering my questions with silence, and purposely giving me goofy answers instead of correct ones.  Reflecting on this, I am glad the Lord reminded me to DO what works, and DITCH what doesn't!!  It doesn't work for this little boy to sit in a desk, look me in the eye, and answer canned questions.  He thrives on competition in a group setting.  He learns by having his hands move, so he will be allowed to color, build legos and crash cars while I recite.  I love the way the Lord keeps us on our knees!  
reading lesson
DIY bird costume

swimming lessons
Today Jaci's math lesson consisted of making a graph of a range of years that 20 pennies were minted.  It very quickly came to my attention that she had never heard of the 1900's.  Wow, I guess when you were born in 2008, that would be a foreign concept!

mmmm, tea party!

queen of the chickies
 

hurdles!
Ella and Tessa are cruising through their first introduction to our new classical curriculum!  We began in March in order "catch them up" before we join the Classical Conversations community in September!!  They are memorizing amazing amounts of information from Bible, History, Math, Science, English and Latin Grammar!  The Lord so clearly and plainly led us to this when we asked in prayer; we are all so excited for what is ahead!

I am proud of Ella because she is self motivated, helpful, and a beautiful person inside and out.  She recently completed a 14 hour Safe Sitter course, so we have begun allowing her to babysit her siblings for short stints.  She is very responsible, and now knows more about CPR than I do!
nature girl!

Ella planned, prepared and hosted a tea party all on her own!

high jump!

javelin! 
relay!
Tessa is the girl who loves to check off lists.  When I compose a list of chores and school work for her, she would happily go about working on it and come tell me when it is done!  Now, if I could just get such a list made every day... Since I don't, she is usually the one badgering me with the question, "Mom, can I be released from school now?"  What a kid!!!  She is mastering multiplication, and is a great help around the kitchen!
Tessa's 1st place long jump

hurdles!

yes!  She runs for those ribbons!
So, no summer off school for us ... obviously a decision I would have never made on my own, but I've been inspired by the Holy Spirit to do!  I'm so thankful for an uber-supportive husband, who is sitting down to drill our History Timeline (including 161 events and people from Creation to Present) in the evenings!  And answering math questions in a more professional way than I can!  He is sold, as I am, on the classical model; his support keeps me going!  He has also given me a few breaks by taking the kids to a nearby lake to catch snails, minnows and crawdads.  When they bring them home and put them in the kiddie pool to observe, I say-- best science lesson ever!
best dad ever

He has carried 5 so far...
We are having fun with an in depth study of the United States, including names of each President in chronological order and identifying each state by its shape and location (and I have to admit, I didn't know which were Rhode Island, Delaware, or Connecticut until now).  As another parent put it, "we are redeeming our education along with them!"  So fun to be in it together!

So, as a matter of coincidence, while we were pouring time into studying the amazing United States, Skirt Fixation offered this beautiful embroidered pillow, and so I commissioned one!!  This is one of my favorite blogs.  If you like skirts, sewing, or unique childrens' clothing, you should check out their website!
 

Today I saw the little sign that I hung above the school room door peeling off the paint.  It reads, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!"  Seeing it half hanging there struck me as real irony ~ right about now, I can only do about 1/2 of things, through Christ who strengthens me!  A pregnant lady gets asked hundreds of times, "How are you feeling?"  My standard reply has become: "I will feel better in October".
we all love hikes!  With Grandpa Dave.
best P.E. class ever

one last afternoon to enjoy Violet Lane!

Saturday, April 11, 2015

mommyhood poem

Just this week, I went to make myself a snack, and Tessa requested I do something for her.  I paused and began to fulfill her request when Aaron approached with a more urgent need.  I paused Tessa's favor and helped Aaron, spun around in the kitchen a few times, and tried to remember what I was there for, in the first place!  This doesn't just happen once a week or once a day ~ this happens *all day, every day*!!  
It's enough to make me dizzy.  And take a deep breath!  
So finding this poem this week made me smile ~
"If You Give Mom a Muffin"
If you give a mom a muffin,
She'll want a cup of coffee to go with it.
She'll pour herself some.
Her three-year-old will spill the coffee.
She'll wipe it up.
Wiping the floor, she'll find dirty socks.
She'll remember she has to do laundry.
When she puts the laundry in the washer,
She'll trip over boots and bump into the freezer.
Bumping into the freezer will remind her
she has to plan for supper.
She will get out a pound of hamburger.
She'll look for her cookbook
("101 Things To Do With a Pound of Hamburger").
The cookbook is setting under a pile of mail.
She will see the phone bill, which is due tomorrow.
She will look for her checkbook.
The checkbook is in her purse
that is being dumped out by her two-year-old.
She'll smell something funny.
She'll change the two-year-old's diaper.
While she is changing the diaper, the phone will ring.
Her five-year-old will answer and hang up.
She'll remember she wants to phone a friend for coffee.
Thinking of coffee will remind her
that she was going to have a cup.
And chances are...If she has a cup of coffee,
Her kids will have eaten the muffin that went with it.

Author: Beth Brubaker

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Score

Yes, it is true, not a joke...though announced on April 1!   We are happy to anticipate baby #6, due in October!

The girls want a girl.  The boys want a boy.  It's a bit like adding to your team!  We are pretty well split; here's our kids' score so far:

Girls: 3 Boys: 2
Born on Friday night: 3  Born on Tuesday night: 2
Right handed: 3. Left handed: 2
Early risers: 2 Night owls: 3
Loud: 2 Quiet: 3
Blue eyes: 5
Love to be outside: 5
Love sweet treats: 5


Number of 2015 babies (that we know of):
Doland family: 3
Pheifer family: 3
church family: 3

As for the parents, we are glad that we'll either have 3/3, or 4 daughters and 2 sons.  

And no, we won't know until October! 

MARCH




the way the eggs arrived
17 eggs in an incubator, we were hoping for a 50% success rate

After a few weeks, Adrian candled the eggs and discovered only 2 out of 17 were viable.  We marked those eggs, and followed the protocol to have them hatch. On day 21, the day they were supposed to hatch, one came out!  Adrian & I were more fascinated than the kids.  We had to read all about how it normally happened, not to worry.  The first chick took 7 hours from pip to hatch.
I had NO IDEA you can hear a chick chirping before it emerges from the shell!!
I had NO IDEA they don't need any water or food for the first 24 hours!
I had NO IDEA a chick goes from a pathetic little wad of wet feathers...
...to quite strong, running and eating within 36 hours!

We left the last fertilized egg in the incubator, without much hope.  We had never read anywhere that they can hatch past 21 days.  Then, on day 23, we started to hear chirping from inside the intact shell.  She emerged on day 24: 
making a break!

half way out!
pathetic little thing!










once we knew we only had 2 viable eggs in the incubator,
we brought 12 more home from the feed store
...quantity 3 each of 4 different breeds...


a bathtub is their home until they no longer need a heat lamp





days apart in age:
chick on the left is named Paul M. Sunday (or Paula if she's a hen).  She hatched on Sunday.
chick on the right is from the feed store, about 2 weeks old.
(No name, because we can't easily tell the 9 black ones apart.)
to get the full effect, add chirping x 12
these three are the most mellow of the crowd.
they let you pick them up easily,
and they just sat where I positioned them for the photo.

the kids call this guy "Penguin" because of his markings.

AFTER we bought 12 at the feed store, thinking half might be roosters, we found out they are usually about 90% hens.  
Our coop won't accommodate 14 chickens in the winter, so we might be giving away some hens in the fall...
....but we'll worry about that later.

Traveled to Idaho Falls for an uncle's funeral.
Not a happy reason to gather, but there is happiness in gathering!
The five siblings, from FL, WI, ID and MT!
Congrats on your engagement, Joel & Stephanie!!